Between the devil and the deep sea!

Between the devil and the deep sea is exactly how I see the question I am about to ask you guys, because I really do not know if there is a lesser of these two evils?I was talking to a married friend, and she said:

• more often than not, men will cheat, the question now is, does he respect you enough to hide it? Or does he just flaunt his promiscuity without a care in the world?

• The next question is, would you rather have you spouse cheat on you with a fixed mistress, whom by the way he is in every way committed to, and a major rival, because the only difference between the two of you is the fact that she is not legal and you are! Or would you prefer he had a series of casual, no strings attached flings?

As horrid as these questions are, it is a harsh reality for most women, and some men. It is quite unfortunate that people have to settle for one of two crappy situations.
Cheating , especially from men seem like its socially acceptable, even by most wives, because they have decided not to send themselves to an early grave with worry.na wa o!
In my last piece about valentine I wrote about people sending themselves gifts just to impress people, and since we are talking about cheating, I figured we should relate it to valentine as well.
Have y'all heard about cheaters who spend valentine with two, three or more people?
At the risk of sounding like a spanner in the wheel of romance, isnt it emotionally and physically tasking enough being in a relationship with one person? how the heck do these cheaters manage, and this year's valentine day is on a monday, a working day of the week. So between work, and rush hour (for lagosians) it seem hard enough to squeeze in even one val date!
well, i gotta get back to work sha, will keep feeding y'all with any gist i hear that is valentine related, and for the record, I got plans for mine now *wink*