Tuesday, 18 September 2012

21 Ways To Make Your Man Come Running Home To You

Okay, let me start by saying I am no authority here, a guy sent it to me and I thought it made for good read. And since women keep complaining about their men straying, I figured we should hear from a man's perspective some of the things that would make him come running right back to you after work.
Yeah, I am sweet like that. Lol
  •  Behave like a female, i.e. with all the tenderness of a female.
  •  Dress pleasantly and attractively. If you are a home-maker, don't stay in your sleeping suit / pyjamas all day.
  •  Smell good!
  • Don't lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break.
  •  Don't keep asking him 'what are you thinking?' because unlike women, men's thoughts are as random as the results of a google search. Women on the other hand have thoughts as organised as a labelled file-cabinet!
  • Stop nagging non-stop before Devil gives you something really to complain about.
  • Absolutely no talking about your spousal problems to anyone you meet under the pretence of seeking help, even if you are the victim. If you think you want to solve legitimate marital issues then go seek counselling.
  • Be kind to your mother-in-law, the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother.
  • Learn all the rights and obligations to each other in Christianity
  • Race to the door when he comes home, as if you were waiting for him. Smile and hug him.
  • Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it.
  • Compliment him on the things you know he's not so confident about (looks, intelligence etc). This will build his self-esteem.
  • Tell him he's the best husband.
  • Call his family often.
  • Give him a simple task to do at home and then thank him when he does it. This will encourage him to do more.
  • When he's talking about something boring, listen and nod your head. Even ask questions to make it seem like you're interested.
  • Encourage him to do good deeds.
  • If he's in a bad mood, give him some space. He'll get over it.
  • Thank him sincerely for providing you with food and shelter. It's a big deal.
  • If he's angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out while you're quiet.
  • And Finally, make him ask for more in the bedroom (Yes! sex/lovemaking is important)

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