Sunday, 9 September 2012
Man Sends Wife Packing For Delivering Triplets!
According to the Daily Post, The birth of new born babies was supposed to be bundles of joy and happiness to their parents, but the reverse was the case of Mrs. Zainab Siraju and her estranged hubby, Mr. Kabiru Yusuf. The 26-year-old woman was delivered of a set of triplet on May 4, 2012. Barely two days after the two boys and a girl arrived, her husband divorced her for giving him three babies at a time. But before throwing her out of their matrimonial home, Kabiru allegedly beat the mother of the triplet to coma.After regaining consciousness three months later, embittered Zainab in an interview vowed that even if the father of her new babies made efforts to reconcile with her, she would never go back to a man who had no pity for her."Two days after I put to bed and was discharged from the hospital, I received the beating of my life from my husband for giving birth to triplet. The next thing was that he issued me a divorce letter," she said.The embattled woman, amidst uncontrollable tears narrated her ordeal in the hands of her run-away husband. This was even as she alleged that she was beaten up by her brother in-law for daring to make her case known to the media. However, Zainab whose marriage to Kabiru Yusuf was her second said she had no regret having the triplet despite the rejection by their father. Zainab also had three boys for her first husband but refused to disclose why her first marriage crashed. She simply said she might have been chased her out of her first marriage by fate to have her three bundles of joy for Kabiru Yusuf.According to the mother of six,
"Actually I was married before, but the marriage didn't last. I had three children there who are presently with their father. I believed I left my first husband because I was destined to have triplet for Kabiru and these are my first delivery for him."But, since he divorced me for having triplet, I moved in with my parents in Tudun Wada here in Kaduna, where help has come from good people, who have been assisting me with money, food and clothes."The mother of six also disclosed that a few days after her return from the hospital, her husband's younger brother also attacked her for disclosing her ordeal to the public through the media.Asked if she would go back to her husband, Zainab said: "I will not go back to him even if he begs me because of his uncaring attitude, which I am sure he can't stop. He didn't take care of me despite the fact that he works at Panteka."He was aware before my delivery that I was carrying triplet. He was adequately informed, because we did scan and it was revealed that I was pregnant with triplet."I am not disturbed that I gave birth to triplet. I use this opportunity to thank God for blessing me with the triplet and I pray to God to bless them for me."On the issue of remarriage, Zainab also ruled out the possibility of testing marriage again, saying that she wants to concentrate and take good care of her six children."I'm not planning to re-marry. I want to take proper care of my children, give them good training and a sound education. So, I will welcome any job opportunity that comes my way to enable me take care of my babies."Contrary to the claim Zainab, Kabir Yusuf, a welder, denied that he divorced his wife for giving birth to a set of triplet. Yusuf accused his former wife of conniving with the media to tarnish his image, saying that he divorced her because she was has no regards for him or nay member of his family."I was surprised when my attention was drawn to a programme on DITV and some newspapers that I divorced my wife because she gave birth to a set of triplet. This, to me, was an insult because God gave me those children. Why would I maltreat her? I divorced her four months ago but the media reported it as if it was yesterday. She lied against me."He explained that trouble started when his wife refused to stay with his mother as culture demanded, adding: "My mother asked her to come and stay with her so that she could take good care of her but she refused the offer for reasons best known to her. In fact, she went further to insult my mother."Yusuf also refuted laying his hands on his ex-wife, "God knows I did not beat her. Instead, she held my clothes and beat me. I couldn't retaliate because of her condition. It doesn't make any sense for one to divorce his wife because she gave birth to three babies at a time. In fact, since I sent her packing, I have been feeding her and the babies and I bought the medicine prescribed at the hospital. I have left everything to God."